The Caretaker’s 23 Psalm

Recently, my thoughts have been drawn to the 23rd Psalm. David used his role as a shepherd to describe his relationship with God. It occurred to me that we really do not understand this metaphor today. Hardly anyone knows someone who owns sheep, must less someone who is actually a shepherd.

I then thought that the closest parallel we have today might be the caretaker of a parent -- especially those who have the parents in their home, who are responsible for them 24/7. What follows is a paraphrase of Psalm 23 from that perspective.

I think this is a real need in our day. Even though the situations are different (some have parents in the home, some have parents still living at home, some have parents in a nursing or extended care facility or the home of a sibling) the emotions, the struggles, the questions, the needs are very similar.

The Caretaker’s 23 Psalm

My Lord is my Caretaker, I shall not want.

He makes me sit in a place where I feel comfortable. He provides the food that I need and sometimes, I actually like.

He keeps me refreshed and encouraged.

He makes me do what is best for me although I may not understand why.

Death is closing in upon me and it is easy for me to be afraid, but you are nearby. Your guiding hand, though at times firm, and familiar voice, though sometimes stern, help calm my fears.

You are taking care of me as best you can even though I have enemies – the disease that has invaded my body – the condition that is robbing me of my memory – the doctors and nurses whom I do not remember – my new environment that is not my home! (Oh, how I want to go home!).

You make sure that I am cared for – that I am bathed – that I am clothed – that I have a good bed – that my medicines are taken.

You are caring for me better than I could have imagined. (Some of the things you are doing, a child should never have to do for or to a parent, but you are doing them!)

I may not be aware or appreciate your loving service, but know this. It is clear that you are determined that this care will continue until I say my last word, close my eyes one more time and take my final breath. I rest in your care.

Danny Baer, 2016